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About Dunya
Greetings..
My role in the Vampire Church is to teach and advise those
who come to the VC looking for help.I am the Online Program Administrator.. I
feel as those I benefit as much as anyone
else by what I learn or what I teach. I also share a great deal on the
forums as well as being a moderator of a few. I think there is a great
deal of knowledge people can pick up from others. And my role is to
learn that, as well as share it. I love what I do. There is nothing
better then writing and helping others.
Blessed Be,
Dunya
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Question: What is it that we as individuals need from another in order to
keep that even keel? How successful have you been in finding just that right
kind of relationship/s? If you have not been able to
yet find that kind of relationship, what are the difficulties that you have had
to confront and why? If you have that perfect blend, do
you think it is something that you will continue to have, or do you
think things may change?
Greetings..
Well what questions we have before us. But I can sum it up
for myself
quite easily. What I need as an individual to keep balanced? Just that...One
word balance...I need help daily on it, working on it
myself and help from others.
I don't think one time in my life I have found such a balance in my
life. Each thing I have
ever done has been in obsessive fashion. Meaning I will go heads out
like a fiend doing any task I put my mind to,
some going on for years..Then all of a sudden something else comes
along and draws my attention, and with that, a balance
again is not met. "Why do I do these things" one might ask? Could it
be part of vampirism? Or part of some imbalance in my mind?
I find my relationships on business fronts can be hard because one has
a hard time keeping a balance in one's life with everything they do -
kids, love, home, bills and so on. I haven't really had a hard time
finding love , but have had hard times in the past finding someone
that can understand me. I think that's the difficulties I come
across, Someone that understands me. And each day I long to
understand myself and help myself learn the balance of life, so I'm
more socially active, and not so prone to crawl back into my crab - like
shell, Like the cancerian I am. So I admit, even for a vampire, life seems
so much like anyone else's. I still deal with responsibilities. But I'm
a slow girl, forgetting balance from time to time.
My tug of war. I think with understanding and time, I can see a change.
And better is what anyone wants.
Blessed be,
Dunya
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