About Silver



Greetings,

My name is Silver, I am 36 years old, and reside in the United Kingdom in Southampton.. During my time in this organization, I have gone from being a list member,to a member, to a council member..I am extremely active within this organization and deem it my heart and soul.. Within the VC my functions are many, going from associate in charge of applications and interviews, to classes, public relations, and also a member of the zine staff..I also run the UK/Europe offline office..These are my official duties as a council member..

I feel it isn't so much the organization that I am dedicated to, but more to the people who frequent it and belong to it..If they need my help, I try to be there for them in any way that I can..I am also a member of House Sekhemu, which is a house of double power, meaning we are vampires, but we are also scholars and mystics and therefore we study many diverse subjects and paths..This house is beginning to take off in the community and has recently gone through a growth spurt which is very exciting..Being an empathic vampire ( although I have sanguine tendencies ), my main method of energy gaining is through emotions, although I also psi feed quite alot..I am more active within the online community as being a single parent does not allow for an adult social life, but I do however keep in contact with several here in the UK and US via phone..

~Dark Blessings~
Silver



Question: What is it that we as individuals need from another in order to keep that even keel? How successful have you been in finding just that right kind of relationship/s? If you have not been able to yet find that kind of relationship, what are the difficulties that you have had to confront and why? If you have that perfect blend, do you think it is something that you will continue to have, or do you think things may change?

Greetings..

Well seeing as this is a multi - faceted question, it is deserving of an answer befitting its magnitude, so I will attempt to do it justice, if I am able..Starting with what I need to keep an even keel, first I would have to say trust..Trust plays a very huge part in all relationships, quite obviously..Without trust, there won't be a relationship for long, if it even was one to begin with..Honesty is another biggee with me..If you cannot be honest with me, then I cannot trust you, and we then find ourselves at an impasse..

As far as the success rates of finding someone genuine enough that merits trust from you, and is totally honest with you at any and all times, this is very rare and we are being unrealistic if we think it exists all over the place..I have encounted situations where I was able to trust, and that trust that I had was broken down irretrievably by being lied to ALL the time..So endowing my trust on anyone is never a given, and if you have it, you should feel lucky, and worthy, for it is not something in which I bestow on the many, but rather on the few..And even the few place themselves betimes in situations that cause the red flags to rise to the occasion..

As far as not being able to find this out there in existence very often, it is because in all actual fact, we have changed as a species..Little white lies have become a prominent thing in our culture..We lie to each other for a variety of reasons, and as long as we get away with it, we think no more about it..Sad..

Lastly, I don't think there is such a thing as a perfect blend with the exception of a good assam or darjeeling tea, or maybe a good arabica bean blend of coffee..Humans have become for the most part, unfeeling and uncaring animals, who sometimes give little in the way of thought when it comes to backstabbing one another.. I do not think such a "perfect blend" nor a "happy medium" may actually be found..I think you just have to go cautiously and very steady, and hope for the best..With all things, the hope that this will someday change, is still strong in my heart.. This is my greatest wish, that Man will learn to feel and care again for fellow man - and woman..

Dark Blessings~

Silver

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