About Dunya



Greetings..

My role in the Vampire Church is to teach and advise those who come to the VC looking for help.I am the Online Program Administrator.. I feel as those I benefit as much as anyone else by what I learn or what I teach. I also share a great deal on the forums as well as being a moderator of a few. I think there is a great deal of knowledge people can pick up from others. And my role is to learn that, as well as share it. I love what I do. There is nothing better then writing and helping others.

Blessed Be,
Dunya



Question: What is it that we as individuals need from another in order to keep that even keel? How successful have you been in finding just that right kind of relationship/s? If you have not been able to yet find that kind of relationship, what are the difficulties that you have had to confront and why? If you have that perfect blend, do you think it is something that you will continue to have, or do you think things may change?

Greetings..

Well what questions we have before us. But I can sum it up for myself quite easily. What I need as an individual to keep balanced? Just that...One word balance...I need help daily on it, working on it myself and help from others. I don't think one time in my life I have found such a balance in my life. Each thing I have ever done has been in obsessive fashion. Meaning I will go heads out like a fiend doing any task I put my mind to, some going on for years..Then all of a sudden something else comes along and draws my attention, and with that, a balance again is not met. "Why do I do these things" one might ask? Could it be part of vampirism? Or part of some imbalance in my mind? I find my relationships on business fronts can be hard because one has a hard time keeping a balance in one's life with everything they do - kids, love, home, bills and so on. I haven't really had a hard time finding love , but have had hard times in the past finding someone that can understand me. I think that's the difficulties I come across, Someone that understands me. And each day I long to understand myself and help myself learn the balance of life, so I'm more socially active, and not so prone to crawl back into my crab - like shell, Like the cancerian I am. So I admit, even for a vampire, life seems so much like anyone else's. I still deal with responsibilities. But I'm a slow girl, forgetting balance from time to time. My tug of war. I think with understanding and time, I can see a change. And better is what anyone wants.

Blessed be,
Dunya

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