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About Silver
Greetings,
My name is Silver, I am 36 years old, and reside in the
United Kingdom in Southampton..
During my time in this organization, I have gone from being a list
member,to a member, to a
council member..I am extremely active within this organization and
deem it my heart and soul..
Within the VC my functions are many, going from associate in charge
of applications and interviews,
to classes, public relations, and also a member of the zine staff..I
also run the UK/Europe offline
office..These are my official duties as a council member..
I feel it isn't so much the organization that I am dedicated to, but
more to the people who frequent it
and belong to it..If they need my help, I try to be there for them in
any way that I can..I am also a
member of House Sekhemu, which is a house of double power, meaning we
are vampires, but we
are also scholars and mystics and therefore we study many diverse
subjects and paths..This house
is beginning to take off in the community and has recently gone
through a growth spurt which is very
exciting..Being an empathic vampire ( although I have sanguine
tendencies ), my main method of
energy gaining is through emotions, although I also psi feed quite
alot..I am more active within the
online community as being a single parent does not allow for an adult
social life, but I do however
keep in contact with several here in the UK and US via phone..
~Dark Blessings~
Silver
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Question: What is it that we as individuals need from another in order to
keep that even keel? How successful have you been in finding just that right
kind of relationship/s? If you have not been able to
yet find that kind of relationship, what are the difficulties that you have had
to confront and why? If you have that perfect blend, do
you think it is something that you will continue to have, or do you
think things may change?
Greetings..
Well seeing as this is a multi - faceted question, it is deserving of
an answer befitting its magnitude, so I will attempt to do it
justice, if I am able..Starting with what I need to keep an even
keel, first I would have to say trust..Trust plays a very huge part
in all relationships, quite obviously..Without trust, there won't be
a relationship for long, if it even was one to begin with..Honesty is
another biggee with me..If you cannot be honest with me, then I
cannot trust you, and we then find ourselves at an impasse..
As far as the success rates of finding someone genuine enough that
merits trust from you, and is totally honest with you at any and all
times, this is very rare and we are being unrealistic if we think it
exists all over the place..I have encounted situations where I was
able to trust, and that trust that I had was broken down
irretrievably by being lied to ALL the time..So endowing my trust on
anyone is never a given, and if you have it, you should feel lucky,
and worthy, for it is not something in which I bestow on the many,
but rather on the few..And even the few place themselves betimes in
situations that cause the red flags to rise to the occasion..
As far as not being able to find this out there in existence very
often, it is because in all actual fact, we have changed as a
species..Little white lies have become a prominent thing in our
culture..We lie to each other for a variety of reasons, and as long
as we get away with it, we think no more about it..Sad..
Lastly, I don't think there is such a thing as a perfect blend with
the exception of a good assam or darjeeling tea, or maybe a good
arabica bean blend of coffee..Humans have become for the most part,
unfeeling and uncaring animals, who sometimes give little in the way
of thought when it comes to backstabbing one another.. I do not think
such a "perfect blend" nor a "happy medium" may actually be found..I
think you just have to go cautiously and very steady, and hope for
the best..With all things, the hope that this will someday change, is
still strong in my heart.. This is my greatest wish, that Man will
learn to feel and care again for fellow man - and woman..
Dark Blessings~
Silver
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